Being from
Uganda, and a recipient of FOM’s work when he was younger, Julius believes that
helping children starts by helping those who care for them; their parents,
grandparents, neighbors, and/or guardians.
When the caretaker is empowered, the results show in his/her family.
In Uganda, as
well as most African nations, there is a significant problem. Statistically speaking, 51% of children in
Uganda are considered a vulnerable child or an orphan. This accounts for over 10 million
children! A vulnerable child is defined
as a child who is living in a situation that is exposing him/her to significant
physical, mental, or emotional harm. An
orphan is defined as a child who has lost one or both parents.
Life for
vulnerable children and orphans is hard.
They have all dealt with loss of some kind, whether due to illness,
death, abandonment, or another traumatic event.
When a child in Africa loses a caretaker, the cultural expectation is that
their extended family or neighbors take them in. However, in a place where most families are
struggling significantly, taking in another child means less resources and care
for the entire household. In families
without both parents, the stress on the family can be unbearable.
Julius knows
about this stress. When Julius was
twelve years old his mom died of HIV/AIDS. Since his father had passed the year
before, he was left with the responsibility of taking care of his younger
sister and brother. Within a short time,
hardship forced them into eating from trash bins, sleeping on the streets, and
doing hard labor in order to make enough money to survive. Julius struggled to get money, not only for
food, but for school fees. It was hard,
and he missed many classes and exams.
While on the streets, he ran into an uncle who took them to his
place. This seemingly good fortune
tragically turned unfortunate, as his uncle sold their property, treated them
like house slaves and left them with nothing.
Soon, they went back on the streets to escape this unhealthy
situation.
Begging does not
suit a boy of fourteen, so Julius got a job as a houseboy/groundskeeper for two
years. During this time, he used his
salary to pay for his siblings’ school fees while he worked. Life seemed decent until one fateful night
when the compound was attacked by robbers.
Sadly, Julius’ boss was killed.
This turn of events forced Julius and his siblings back on the street. He no longer had a salary that would cover
his school fees and his former boss’s widow had threatened him. Those days were so difficult that his younger
brother nearly died from the harsh weather and hunger.
Difficult days
continued until the day Julius ran into one of his dad’s old friends. He told this man of their situation and this
man invited them to his modest home. He
was running an organization, treated them like his own kids and provided all
their needs on a very small income.
Julius says of this time, “This is where I experienced God’s love and
care.” Because of their respect and
obedience to him, they won a special place in this man’s heart.
FOM came to know
Julius in 2006, when we began to work with a local organization called The AIDS
Orphans Support Trust (TAOST). TAOST was helping Julius and his siblings with
some of their basic needs. Julius spoke
with Michelle (FOM’s Executive Director) during a visit to the community
school. He told her his story and
Michelle was touched. She began helping
Julius and his siblings. Julius says,
“Since then, Michelle and her family have created a big transformation in my
life through supporting our education until I finished my Business
Administration Course (Accounting Major) at University.”
In 2011, FOM
hired Julius to work with women and men who want a better life for themselves
and their children. This is something Julius' own parents would have wanted as
well. Julius has gone from a boy
struggling on the streets to a man with a passion for business and one who
wants to help his own community. Julius
is someone who understands what it means to overcome obstacles. He understands the value of education and has
an incredible gift for teaching. Julius
connects easily and readily with others and is someone we trust to run our
Vocational Development program.
So, what does Julius’s
work look like? How does he help FOM
help his community? Next week, we will go into detail about Julius's role with Fount of Mercy...so come back for Part 2!
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